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In a typical life coaching arrangement, trained professional coaches
help adult clients to define their unique needs and goals and then
assist them in taking specific actions to make positive changes
in their lives.
At Coaching and Learning Institute (CLI), we believe
that the action-oriented features of life coaching are ideal for
helping adolescents take responsibility for their lives. Unlike
tutors, who support youth with remedial help, life coaches can “step
inside” young people’s world view and get them invested
in making change. Unlike parents, who support their adolescent children
with well-meaning advice and admonitions, life coaches can be an
objective sounding board to help youth make sense of the pressures
they experience at this critical period in their lives.
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To train adolescents to turn challenges into opportunities, we
employ a process for change that never uses the words “problem,”
“challenge,” or even “goal.” We have adapted
life coaching techniques, which are inherently positive, to fit
the visual and imaginative strengths of adolescents. Young people
learn to visualize a skill they would like to develop, or a power
they already possess but would like to expand. We help them to create
a rich, specific image (visually, verbally, and/or kinesthetically)
of the outcome they desire. We then teach them how to take small
manageable steps to turn this vision into reality.
Not only do they attain their goals, but they develop the capacity
to engage in this process on their own, giving them a route to competence
whenever they are challenged. As they go on to achieve increasingly
more impressive successes, they strengthen their self-concept. They
use a growth model that is positively reinforcing rather than negative
and deficit based.
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